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Abas, a Somali-Finnish nomad, writes about Islamic marriage, personal growth, and the Seerah, weaving in faith-based insights alongside handy tips for staying safe online.
The Power of a Three-Month Feedback Getaway for Couples

Marriage is a special bond that needs care and understanding to grow. Sometimes, small problems can turn into big ones if we don’t talk about them. To keep your marriage happy, try having a feedback session every three months –…
Marriage Disagreements: Us vs. The Issue, Not You vs. Me

Assalmu Allaikum, Disagreements are a natural part of any relationship. They’re not a sign of failure but an opportunity to grow closer, understand each other better, and strengthen your bond. The way couples navigate these moments can make all the…
Why Most Marriages End – The Real Reason is Lack of Communication, Not Love

Picture this: two people, deeply in love, vowing to spend their lives together. Yet, years later, they’re strangers under the same roof, their once-vibrant connection reduced to silence and distance. What went wrong? It’s a question that haunts countless couples,…
