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Abas, a Somali-Finnish nomad, writes about Islamic marriage, personal growth, and the Seerah, weaving in faith-based insights alongside handy tips for staying safe online.
The Spouse Behind the Vision

A person with goals has to be careful about the spouse they choose. Not because your spouse is responsible for your success. They are not. You should already know where you are going and be willing to carry the weight…
Marriage Doesn’t Run on Autopilot

It is easy to feel excited at the beginning of marriage, but keeping the relationship strong requires ongoing care and attention. No marriage succeeds without deliberate effort. Marriage needs constant work to stay fresh and vibrant. Even after many years…
The Five-Minute Conversation That Changed a Father’s Life

Fourteen months ago, after Maghrib salah at a mosque in London, an uncle (Adeer) approached me – “my son, can I speak to you for five minutes? We often pray together, and you are like a son to msomale.” He…




