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Abas, a Somali-Finnish nomad, writes about Islamic marriage, personal growth, and the Seerah, weaving in faith-based insights alongside handy tips for staying safe online.
The Three Dangerous Stages of Marriage

Every marriage goes through different seasons. Some periods need extra care and attention to keep the relationship healthy. The first year of marriage, especially when there are no children yet, can be lonely for the wife. If she is not…
Creating Meaningful One-on-One Moments With Your Children

Children grow so quickly and sometimes the little moments we share with them matter more than we realise. Taking time to connect, listen and include them can shape who they become and help them feel valued in the family. Some…
The Way We Were Created

Some evenings, when life feels a bit too loud, I find myself thinking about how quickly things are changing. The way we speak about men and women today is very different from how it used to be. Everywhere you look,…




