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Abas, a Somali-Finnish nomad, writes about Islamic marriage, personal growth, and the Seerah, weaving in faith-based insights alongside handy tips for staying safe online.
The Power of Truly Listening to Your Wife

In the middle of a conversation, it’s so tempting to jump in, defend yourself, or explain why you’re right. But the most powerful thing a husband can ever do is pause, stay quiet and truly listen. When you give your…
This is what destroys many Muslims marriage…

Love is often spoken about as if it lives only on the tongue – repeated phrases, constant reassurance and surface level affection. But in Islam, love is something far deeper. It is not measured by how often “I love you”…
Small Acts of Love That Keep Couples Connected

Assalamu Alaikum, This evening, I was walking through one of my favourite parks in London. It was quiet, the kind of quiet where your thoughts become louder than everything around you. As I walked, I found myself thinking about something…




