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Abas, a Somali-Finnish nomad, writes about Islamic marriage, personal growth, and the Seerah, weaving in faith-based insights alongside handy tips for staying safe online.
Before You Say Yes

Choosing to marry is one of the biggest decisions you’ll ever make. Yet too many people rush into it without ever asking themselves the real question: Why am I doing this? Some want to escape loneliness. Others hope marriage will…
Why do you truly want to get married?

Choosing to marry is one of the biggest decisions you’ll ever make. Yet too many people rush into it without ever asking themselves the real question: Why am I doing this? Some want to escape loneliness. Others hope marriage will…
The Power of Truly Listening to Your Wife

In the middle of a conversation, it’s so tempting to jump in, defend yourself, or explain why you’re right. But the most powerful thing a husband can ever do is pause, stay quiet and truly listen. When you give your…




